Tanya had worked at the women’s refuge for about 8 years and seen some sad sights. Women desperate to hang on to a family for the sake of their children but who ended up leaving it until it was almost too late to get out. Women who thought this was all there was and that […]
If you grew up in a broken home, you’ve probably heard that your marriage is far more likely to end in divorce. Well, that doesn’t have to be the case. Christ came as a restorer, not a destroyer. So in Christ you can restore many of those things that were lost in the broken home […]
Some marriages survive for a brief moment for the sake of the children. The relationship that endures is not a quality marriage of two people who love each other. It has turned into a marriage of convenience that eventually becomes inconvenient for both parties. The children are well aware that the marriage ended long ago, […]
If you share custody of your children with a porn addict, you probably feel worried and scared for your children. You might become especially panicked if your children are the age and gender preferred by the porn addict.
Our clients in child custody litigation come to us feeling frustrated with family court.
Fortunately, through their work […]
What should you expect if you find yourself having to go to divorce court? The answer to this question is not the same for everyone who is faced with their marriage ending. There are various different things that you may have to do for your divorce. You will certainly want to make […]
The Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like” and that what you focus your attention on will expand. It is in operation whether we hold a positive or a negative thought.
People working their way through the divorce process are often flooded with thoughts and feelings they don’t want. Using words like “don’t, not or […]
Separation and divorce are two of the biggest rollercoaster rides you’ll ever find emotionally. The Law of Attraction can give you some traction so you can regain your footing and see your way forward in your divorce journey.
Our thoughts create feelings, which in turn create vibrations that are either positive or negative. The Law of […]
Losing someone with whom you have lived for a few months, a year, ten years or longer can be a devastating experience for some men. Sometimes we come to realize a break-up is the wisest decision and is really a good thing. The assumption is a break-up is always bad, and in need of fixing. […]
When a relationship with a wife or girlfriend feels as if it is falling apart, it most likely is falling apart and this is the time to stop and take an honest assessment. Listening to our inner feelings is essential in every type of relationship because feelings are an armor of protection. Feelings cause us […]
In any relationship, whether it is in business, in dealing with service companies, children or anyone, we must fulfill our promises. When we make a promise, we should keep the promise no matter how small. If you say: I will stop for bread on my way home, then stop for bread. When you say: I […]
When a relationship ends, often there is a reaction of missing the other person. Sometimes we can miss the other person so much we actually feel physically ill and sometimes we actually are physically ill. We get headaches, eating causes nausea, we cannot sleep we ache all over. This is a genuine physical reaction to […]
Divorce and foreclosure often go hand in hand. Many individuals find themselves divorced and stuck with a home that they cannot afford the mortgage on. Others are in divorce and then the individual responsible for the mortgage simply quits paying it. This can be very devastating to both individuals if the home […]
” ‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have lov’d at all” so Tennyson tells us.
But there are many now who would disagree with him. Time after time we hear of those who’ve loved and then endured the pain of separation. This appears to scar some people for life.
The question […]
I figured out I was a lesbian 10 years ago. At the time I had been married for 15 years. We had two kids, a dog, a station wagon and a house–but no white picket fence, thank God. When I made my discovery, everything I thought I knew about my reality crumbled around me and […]
It can be difficult to think about, let alone start a new life after divorce. Whether you were married for several years, or even for just a few months, the emotional trauma you may feel after the papers are signed can affect other aspects of your life as well.
Many people feel an emotional barrier after […]
Our grandparents must have a lot of misgivings considering the new attitudes prevalent in society today about marriage and divorce. Gone are the days when “till death do us part”, means “till death do us part” for many of us.
It appears that “till we have a disagreement” seems more the norm. […]
Failed relationships are difficult and devastating. After a breakup, most people temporarily lose touch with who they are and instead obsess over what their ex is doing now. Confusion, loneliness, and self-doubt envelop their lives, preventing them from moving on.
Lisa Steadman says, “The key is to put the focus back on […]
Etiquette is important in every aspect of our lives, especially in Divorce Court. The etiquette you display in divorce court can have a huge impact on the outcome of your divorce settlement. Judges will look at all the evidence presented to them by both Attorneys before deciding a case, but actions can speak louder than […]
A divorce process is one of the most stressful, overwhelming experiences you will face in your lifetime. It’s hard enough dealing with the present without deciding your financial future by choosing one property settlement over another, but you must be practical.
If you have very few possessions and no children as a result of […]
After you separate or divorce, the most important tool you have at your disposal is your mindset. What are you thinking? What are you telling yourself? Is your goal to “survive” your divorce? Do you feel like you’re a failure or “damaged goods”? Your thoughts have a powerful impact on your reality.
For me and my […]